Just ask don't have a preference just looking around. I'm a bonifide freak who takes pride in what she looks like as long as shes in OKC pretty know how to take care of her man she has to be able to hold a conversation with my partner before and after or it won't work at all..Wife likes to play with other women and we like going to the movies picnics sports or just hanging out with friends. I had a vascetomy several yrs ago so i can't make you pg.