I have had up to 4 men at the same time. When you set boundries on anything in life you have just created ads a limitation when you set your sites on something it may obscure your view from what you think you want not what you really need? I'm a private woman if you have a question i will answer it. I just like fun down to earth people weather it's fishing boating motorcycles married women looking for sex etc does not matter as long as they are kind hearted.